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4 Ways You Can Boost Your Charisma

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Being able to speak well and articulate what you’re saying to others is a skill like pretty much every other. Sure, some people are born with strong vocal cords and can project themselves onto others very well. They’re born with a natural charm that can entice people into believing them – their magnetism is just present all of the time. The majority of us, however, need to work on something like this. It’s a trait that usually starts off very timid – it grows slowly over time. 

Do you feel as though you need to boost your speaking skills? Do you think your charisma could do with a little oomph? Well, luckily for you, it can absolutely happen. Anyone can go from being a shy, little dear in the headlights to a Tony Robbins-esque speaker. Here are a few ways you can do just that: 

Practice At Home!

When you’re at home, and you have the privacy that we all need sometimes, that’s a pretty opportune moment for some practice, don’t you think? We all look at ourselves in the mirror from time to time and have a little sing-song when our favorite number comes on. Perhaps you could do this kind of thing but in a more practical sense. You don’t have to recite a JFK or Barack Obama speech and try too hard – simply looking at yourself and practicing the art of project confidence onto listeners would be a smart move.

Read Some More 

Reading and speaking aren’t directly linked, but they can absolutely be pieced together when you think about it. Someone who is able to read well isn’t necessarily going to be a good speaker, but they’ll be confident in terms of the words they use in conversation. A lot of people are timid and uncharismatic because they don’t know what to say; they don’t know how to express themselves. If you read more and soak up some more lingual knowledge, then you’re going to feel a lot better when it comes to speaking aloud. 

Learn A New Language 

Learning a new language is literally all about being able to communicate better with a different community of people. If you learn how to speak with entirely new words and in an entirely new concept, then you’re going to open yourself up to new ways of behaving. You’ll become more confident in the way you project yourself, too. Many different languages have different accents, pitches, and tones that need to be adhered to in order to get the point across correctly, so you’ll learn how to articulate things even more specifically. There are heaps of Language Courses in your local area and beyond if you wish to tackle the task of becoming bilingual or polylingual at some point in your life. There are also many, many free online lessons on places like YouTube that can give you the basics before you delve further into things.

Look To Build Your Overall Confidence

If you’re quite the introvert, then you’re not going to be as expressive as perhaps you’d like to be. That kind of thing can be quelled, however. You can absolutely build your own self-confidence up some, and it can be done relatively quickly. Exercising, being more social, speaking about your confidence – they all help a person out in this regard.

 

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Simon is a creative and passionate business leader dedicated to having fun in the pursuit of high performance and personal development. He is co-founder of Applied Change, a Business Change consultancy based in the UK. Simon is also an Ambassador for Gloucestershire business. Simon is an Associate Member of the Chartered Institute of Professional Development.

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